From Tragic, To Magnetic
Yes, it is a tragedy that so many women don’t fully understand or embrace the immense power they carry. The essence of a magnetic woman is abundant. In every aspect of her life, abundance flows effortlessly—not because she conforms to limiting beliefs imposed by the patriarchy, but because she walks as a Goddess. She is here to serve life, love, creativity, harmony, and, yes, even chaos.
Now, let’s be honest: some of you are simply serving chaos. Trust me, I’ve been there. Every now and then, I still enjoy a little crash-out moment, but the key is this—I don’t over-identify with the chaos, and neither should you, sis.
THIS YEAR IS YOUR YEAR to invoke your magnetism, harmonize with your body, and become an in-tune woman.
You might be wondering, “Well, Luvly, how do I tap into my magnetism and serve life, love, chaos, creativity, and harmony while becoming in-tune?”
Let me share my starting point: it began by transforming my relationship with my period and my skin. Your reproductive organs and hormones have a profound impact on your skin’s appearance throughout your entire life. As menstruating women go through their monthly cycles, fluctuating hormones cause changes in their skin, which can affect a woman’s confidence, glow, and overall presence.
By tuning into these hormonal shifts and paying close attention to your body’s needs, you can become more in tune with yourself on a monthly basis. Caring for your skin—the largest organ in your body—should be guided by your fluctuating hormonal needs. This process of adapting your skincare routine to align your hormonal shifts is called- skin cycling (cycle syncing your skincare routine).
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A woman who understands her divine rhythm and knows how to support her skin radiates a unique presence. This deep commitment to self-love and care sets her apart.
Society often teaches women to hate their menstrual cycles, treating these divine flows as something shameful. In reality, they are the blueprint and key to becoming magnetic. Magnetism attracts opportunities effortlessly across all areas of life.
Have you ever wondered why some women seem to achieve everything they desire? The secret lies in embodying their feminine essence and harnessing their magnetism.
How to Step Into Your Magnetism by Skin Cycling:
Ground yourself. It’s important to understand your female body exist in a rhythmic state. Meaning, its natural state is to ebb and flow. So, the first step is to accept and ground yourself in the knowing that your body is supposed to fluctuate.
Learn the four phases. There are four phases to the menstrual cycle- not just the bleeding phase AKA the period. The period marks the first day of a new cycle, and should normally last 1-7 days. Next, you have the follicular phase- which is characterized by the maturation of a new egg. Once that egg is matured, we move into the ovulation phase. Ovulation normally last 12-24 hours, however the ovulation window can be 2-5 days. After ovulation, you go into the luteal phase. During the luteal phase, the egg waits for potential fertilization and if none occurs, the uterine lining sheds and you start your period.
Track your period. This is a baseline requirement to start your skin cycling journey because you have to learn your hormonal fluctuations. Without knowing your cycle, you can’t identify your skin’s cyclical cue’s.
Identify your skin’s cyclical cues (SCC). Skin cyclical cue’s are your skin's way of signaling the hormonal changes throughout the menstrual cycle. By understanding these cues, you can tailor your skincare routine based off your unique monthly needs. (Examples: Acne, Clogged Pores, Text Dry Skin Patches, Flared Eczema or Contraindications, Skin sensitivity, etc.)
Merge your skincare and cycle. Merging your skincare routine with your menstrual cycle is important because hormonal fluctuations directly affect your skin's behavior and needs throughout the month. By aligning your routine with these changes, you can proactively care for your skin instead of reacting to issues after they arise. Here's more information on how to start
Build and establish a proactive period plan. Creating a proactive period plan is important because it allows a woman to live in harmony with her natural hormonal rhythms, fostering physical, emotional, and spiritual balance. This approach acknowledges that a woman's body changes cyclically, and by aligning her lifestyle, skincare, and self-care with these changes, she can enhance her overall well-being.